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Why women leave men?
No it is not about husband or boy friend being abusive, cruel and self centered.
True, no woman (or any person for that matter) loves to be with some
self-centered individual but more serious danger to a relationship is stagnation
of emotional flow. Being complacent to the extent of taking the partner for
granted is almost always the reason behind any split.
Every relationship like the individuals in the relationship must evolve to
remain relevant.
Unless nurtured and cared for a marriage becomes irrelevant routine. In most
cases after few years of marriage it ceases to be warm and loving relationship,
people stay together because they get used to the routine of staying together.
Just staying together because one has got used to it is a dangerous situation,
without the glue of love the bond of habit can shatter any time.
But it is not the passing years that reduce the shine of the marriage. Human
nature has more to do with it. What we get easily we attach less value to it, we
take it for granted. In a relationship same human attitude creates all the
complications.
So never take the woman in your life granted. And do not give your woman chance
to take you for granted.
Give her surprise gifts, tell her ‘I love you’, even if you do not feel like
telling. Just utter the words, feeling will follow.
Give her enough space so that she can pursue her self-interests and grow herself
as a human being.
Keep yourself constantly redefining, do not be so easy that your woman can
define or describe you in a few sentences.
Dating and marriage are different games.
Ask right
questions before marriage.
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